Gladisia Tue Sep 02, 2008 8:44 amOVERPROTECTION: Love or Greed?
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OVERPROTECTION: Love or Greed?
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Depende sa situation, when you love somebody, part na yung you protect the person, but sometimes you need to give the person a space to breathe. and let the person realize kng tama ba o mali ginagawa niya.. ang sayo lang is at least you warned the person... pero di rin ibig sabihin na di mo na xa i remind from time to time... kng wala pa rin pagbabago sa kanya...
Greed, kng sobra2x na talaga... kahit gumawa k ng tama eh mali pa rin sa kanya... kahit sinusunod mo xa, at sa konting kalayaan di nya ma ibigay aw, greed na jud na...
y man panget.. na tuok naka? aq bahala sa iyaha... sungagon nato na
Greed, kng sobra2x na talaga... kahit gumawa k ng tama eh mali pa rin sa kanya... kahit sinusunod mo xa, at sa konting kalayaan di nya ma ibigay aw, greed na jud na...
y man panget.. na tuok naka? aq bahala sa iyaha... sungagon nato na
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aw, la man... ganahan man ko, pero usahay makalagot na man gud... 
patay jud ta sa admin diri dai... nagchat nata... 
patay jud ta sa admin diri dai... nagchat nata...
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For Me Overprotection, Probably love...
kasi kaya nga overprotected ung tao sayo kasi he/she love's you dat much takot lang mawala ka sa kanya. or takot lang syang may mangyari sayo. pero honestly ayoko ng ganun.. mostly ng breaking ups nangyari bout sa lovelife ko its because of dat. haha! awts
kasi for me childish kasi ung pagiging ganun. and it just shows na WALA kang TRUST sa partner mo. tsk.
kasi kaya nga overprotected ung tao sayo kasi he/she love's you dat much takot lang mawala ka sa kanya. or takot lang syang may mangyari sayo. pero honestly ayoko ng ganun.. mostly ng breaking ups nangyari bout sa lovelife ko its because of dat. haha! awts
kasi for me childish kasi ung pagiging ganun. and it just shows na WALA kang TRUST sa partner mo. tsk.
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Panget_18 wrote:OVERPROTECTION: Love or Greed?
OVERPROTECTION IS OFTENLY CONNECTED TO JEALOUSY...
WELL, A LILTTLE JEALOUSY IN A RELATIONSHIP IS HEALTHY...
IT IS NICE TO KNOW THAT YOUR LOVE IS AFRAID TO LOSE YOU....
ANOTHER THING IS.... TO DEMAND OF A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO JEALOUSY AND PROTECTION... IS LIKE ASKING FOR A LIGHT THAT CASTS NO SHADOWS...
HOWEVER, AS IT IS ALWAYS SAID... "TOO MUCH OF SOMETHING IS BAD ENOUGH... AND TOO MUCH OF NOTHING IS JUST AS TOUGH...'
UHMMM....
OVERPROTECTION IN MY ASSUMPTION IS "LOVE" IN A SENSE THAT IT IS AN EFFECTIVE WAY OF SHOWING THAT YOU CARE FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE... AND YOU ARE CONCERN WITH HIS/HER WHEREABOUTS....
BUT.... IT BECOMES "GREED" IF YOU ARE GOING ACCROSS THE LINE THAT ANNOYS... DISAPPOINTS AND HURTS YOUR PARTNER....
SUCH AS INVADING TOO MUCH PRIVACY... LACK OF TRUST... AND TOO MUCH ACCUSATIONS....
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FireFoxwrote:For Me Overprotection, Probably love...
kasi kaya nga overprotected ung tao sayo kasi he/she love's you dat much takot lang mawala ka sa kanya. or takot lang syang may mangyari sayo. pero honestly ayoko ng ganun.. mostly ng breaking ups nangyari bout sa lovelife ko its because of dat. haha! awts
kasi for me childish kasi ung pagiging ganun. and it just shows na WALA kang TRUST sa partner mo. tsk.
yeah ur ryt channex...weeeeeee
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^joyce^ wrote:
OVERPROTECTION IS OFTENLY CONNECTED TO JEALOUSY...
WELL, A LILTTLE JEALOUSY IN A RELATIONSHIP IS HEALTHY...
IT IS NICE TO KNOW THAT YOUR LOVE IS AFRAID TO LOSE YOU....
ANOTHER THING IS.... TO DEMAND OF A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO JEALOUSY AND PROTECTION... IS LIKE ASKING FOR A LIGHT THAT CASTS NO SHADOWS...
HOWEVER, AS IT IS ALWAYS SAID... "TOO MUCH OF SOMETHING IS BAD ENOUGH... AND TOO MUCH OF NOTHING IS JUST AS TOUGH...'
UHMMM....
OVERPROTECTION IN MY ASSUMPTION IS "LOVE" IN A SENSE THAT IT IS AN EFFECTIVE WAY OF SHOWING THAT YOU CARE FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE... AND YOU ARE CONCERN WITH HIS/HER WHEREABOUTS....
BUT.... IT BECOMES "GREED" IF YOU ARE GOING ACCROSS THE LINE THAT ANNOYS... DISAPPOINTS AND HURTS YOUR PARTNER....
SUCH AS INVADING TOO MUCH PRIVACY... LACK OF TRUST... AND TOO MUCH ACCUSATIONS....
BONGGA!!! wagi keu kag answer babez...kaw na jud...
kuan pareha lang mig tubag..hahaha...
I seconded na lang akong maingon...
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...m.@.l.@.i.k.@... wrote:^joyce^ wrote:
OVERPROTECTION IS OFTENLY CONNECTED TO JEALOUSY...
WELL, A LILTTLE JEALOUSY IN A RELATIONSHIP IS HEALTHY...
IT IS NICE TO KNOW THAT YOUR LOVE IS AFRAID TO LOSE YOU....
ANOTHER THING IS.... TO DEMAND OF A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO JEALOUSY AND PROTECTION... IS LIKE ASKING FOR A LIGHT THAT CASTS NO SHADOWS...
HOWEVER, AS IT IS ALWAYS SAID... "TOO MUCH OF SOMETHING IS BAD ENOUGH... AND TOO MUCH OF NOTHING IS JUST AS TOUGH...'
UHMMM....
OVERPROTECTION IN MY ASSUMPTION IS "LOVE" IN A SENSE THAT IT IS AN EFFECTIVE WAY OF SHOWING THAT YOU CARE FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE... AND YOU ARE CONCERN WITH HIS/HER WHEREABOUTS....
BUT.... IT BECOMES "GREED" IF YOU ARE GOING ACCROSS THE LINE THAT ANNOYS... DISAPPOINTS AND HURTS YOUR PARTNER....
SUCH AS INVADING TOO MUCH PRIVACY... LACK OF TRUST... AND TOO MUCH ACCUSATIONS....
BONGGA!!! wagi keu kag answer babez...kaw na jud...
kuan pareha lang mig tubag..hahaha...
I seconded na lang akong maingon...
AWW....
ako nah jud ang winner babez?
pwede maulaw?
ahhahahha
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Maski dili ko karelate mutubag na lang pud ko... hehehe..
overprotection as Love - kung love gyud nimo ang isa ka tao, dili man gyud mawala ang selos... normal lang man na kay it means LOVE gyud nimo siya diba. Gipakita lang nimo na he/she loves and care you a lot.
overprotection as greed - kani kay dala na ni samok sa usa ka relasyon. Kung paminaw nimo eh natuuk na ka, gigapusan ka, mura na ka gikulong, wala na kay freedom sa imong sarili, lisod kaayo ilaag with friends, gusto lang niya (BF/ GF) siya masunod tanan, masuko siya kung wala nimo siya giignan asa ka adto,... Eh sobra na gyud nah!... lupigan man ang parents ana oi... sobraan ka-concern. Ayaw lang kasuko sa akoa ha pero mura kag gihimong PET. Nasobrahan sa love siguro ni... nilapas na man sa langit.... hehehehe... Unsaon na lang kung nag-asawa na mo? labaw na siguro ka strict. Dili na siguro ka patrabahuun, pahimuun na ka ug housewife na lang... tsk tsk tsk... bitaw oi, mali man gyud ang lin-ana...
Pero timan-an pud ning gipost ni @joyce;
Kung paminaw nimo eh lin-ana na gyud, tell him/her nganong lin-ana siya. Ayaw kahadlok ug pangutana kay tawo lang mo, owki... Dapat ma-understand pud niya kung unsa man imong gusto, diha na makita ang love niya sa imo. Kung dili gihapon siya kasabot, depende kung unsa pud imong mahimong desisyon. Goodluck! ahihihi...
~Okidoki...
overprotection as Love - kung love gyud nimo ang isa ka tao, dili man gyud mawala ang selos... normal lang man na kay it means LOVE gyud nimo siya diba. Gipakita lang nimo na he/she loves and care you a lot.
overprotection as greed - kani kay dala na ni samok sa usa ka relasyon. Kung paminaw nimo eh natuuk na ka, gigapusan ka, mura na ka gikulong, wala na kay freedom sa imong sarili, lisod kaayo ilaag with friends, gusto lang niya (BF/ GF) siya masunod tanan, masuko siya kung wala nimo siya giignan asa ka adto,... Eh sobra na gyud nah!... lupigan man ang parents ana oi... sobraan ka-concern. Ayaw lang kasuko sa akoa ha pero mura kag gihimong PET. Nasobrahan sa love siguro ni... nilapas na man sa langit.... hehehehe... Unsaon na lang kung nag-asawa na mo? labaw na siguro ka strict. Dili na siguro ka patrabahuun, pahimuun na ka ug housewife na lang... tsk tsk tsk... bitaw oi, mali man gyud ang lin-ana...
Pero timan-an pud ning gipost ni @joyce;
"TOO MUCH OF SOMETHING IS BAD ENOUGH... AND TOO MUCH OF NOTHING IS JUST AS TOUGH...
Kung paminaw nimo eh lin-ana na gyud, tell him/her nganong lin-ana siya. Ayaw kahadlok ug pangutana kay tawo lang mo, owki... Dapat ma-understand pud niya kung unsa man imong gusto, diha na makita ang love niya sa imo. Kung dili gihapon siya kasabot, depende kung unsa pud imong mahimong desisyon. Goodluck! ahihihi...
~Okidoki...
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Aw, pirit ni Arjay maka relate jud kau ba.... 
You have to trust your partner, ok lng magselos as long naa sa lugar ug kung dapat pud selosan... dpat jud naa ka trust sa imong partner...
basi pud d i dai, ni lapas na sa langit iyng love sa imoha...
asa na d i atong girl power dira...
You have to trust your partner, ok lng magselos as long naa sa lugar ug kung dapat pud selosan... dpat jud naa ka trust sa imong partner...
basi pud d i dai, ni lapas na sa langit iyng love sa imoha...
asa na d i atong girl power dira...
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candzy_angel wrote:Aw, pirit ni Arjay maka relate jud kau ba....
You have to trust your partner, ok lng magselos as long naa sa lugar ug kung dapat pud selosan... dpat jud naa ka trust sa imong partner...
basi pud d i dai, ni lapas na sa langit iyng love sa imoha...
asa na d i atong girl power dira...
hilapas nah jud sa langit sis... maoh basin nabgangga den nahagsak sa hell...
OKI RAH KAAU S AKOA KUNG OVERPROTECTED AKONG PARTNER SA AKOA...
PROVIDED NGA DI XA MUPALAG KUNG OVERPROTEKSYONAN PUD NKO XA...
HAHAHHAHAHHA
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^joyce^ wrote:Panget_18 wrote:OVERPROTECTION: Love or Greed?
OVERPROTECTION IS OFTENLY CONNECTED TO JEALOUSY...
WELL, A LILTTLE JEALOUSY IN A RELATIONSHIP IS HEALTHY...
IT IS NICE TO KNOW THAT YOUR LOVE IS AFRAID TO LOSE YOU....
ANOTHER THING IS.... TO DEMAND OF A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO JEALOUSY AND PROTECTION... IS LIKE ASKING FOR A LIGHT THAT CASTS NO SHADOWS...
HOWEVER, AS IT IS ALWAYS SAID... "TOO MUCH OF SOMETHING IS BAD ENOUGH... AND TOO MUCH OF NOTHING IS JUST AS TOUGH...'
UHMMM....
OVERPROTECTION IN MY ASSUMPTION IS "LOVE" IN A SENSE THAT IT IS AN EFFECTIVE WAY OF SHOWING THAT YOU CARE FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE... AND YOU ARE CONCERN WITH HIS/HER WHEREABOUTS....
BUT.... IT BECOMES "GREED" IF YOU ARE GOING ACCROSS THE LINE THAT ANNOYS... DISAPPOINTS AND HURTS YOUR PARTNER....
SUCH AS INVADING TOO MUCH PRIVACY... LACK OF TRUST... AND TOO MUCH ACCUSATIONS....
wow...
bravo...
nag isip pa lang ko unsa ako gitubag imo na gisulti ang tanan...
idol na tka joyce...
just to add some...
OVERPROTECTING somehow wouldnt help the relationship grow if its handled by a person crossing the limit of where he just need to go to...
ibalance lang ang pagprotecta mao lang na...my gf hates me kay wala jud daw me arguments or mga away...maglagot sya...dili sya sanay to be in a relationship na ing ana...she would love each day having me than thinking and comparing her past relationship na mura daw og kudeta pirmi...na pati pagtxt og chat bawal...
text og chat bawal? mao ni ginatawag na greed...
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Ok lng man ang protection not to the extend na dili naka makahinga, naa ka gusto buhaton dili pde, naka gusto adtoan dili pde kay masuko xa... that's too much protection i guess it's a greed... don't get me wrong... but what if more than na mo sa inyong relationship, pati siguro friends dli pde makigistorya? just think about it... before it's too late... concern lng po aq.... 
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i think its greed..
greed..be coz..selpis ka..and ur apred na maagaw xa ng ibah...and
kasi ip u lab dat person kelangan me space den for da bot ob u...
pangit din ung sobra..nakakasakal...and worst makakasakit ka ng feelings ng partner mo...
ok lng mn minsan magselos or protektahan mo ung partner mo..as long as u know ur limits..kasi nakakasawa and nakakasakal..de pa mn din kau as forever ganun na..how much mor pag kayo na talagah..wahehehhe
sow seryos aq ngaun..waheheheh
greed..be coz..selpis ka..and ur apred na maagaw xa ng ibah...and
kasi ip u lab dat person kelangan me space den for da bot ob u...
pangit din ung sobra..nakakasakal...and worst makakasakit ka ng feelings ng partner mo...
ok lng mn minsan magselos or protektahan mo ung partner mo..as long as u know ur limits..kasi nakakasawa and nakakasakal..de pa mn din kau as forever ganun na..how much mor pag kayo na talagah..wahehehhe
sow seryos aq ngaun..waheheheh
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GREED na xa
EVERYTHING na SOBRA man gud dili maayo
ok lng unta kung "protective" lang
pro kung OVERPROTECTIVE
over na jud na. hahahah
EVERYTHING na SOBRA man gud dili maayo
ok lng unta kung "protective" lang
pro kung OVERPROTECTIVE
over na jud na. hahahah
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`POLLY wrote:GREED na xa
EVERYTHING na SOBRA man gud dili maayo
ok lng unta kung "protective" lang
pro kung OVERPROTECTIVE
over na jud na. hahahah
bitaw! bitaw!
tamah jud ni akong isa pud ka idol....
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Hmmm... for me, half2 lng... kay naa man gud muabot sa point na love kayo nimo xa and dili nimo gusto na mwala xa sa imo and on the other way, yeah it is a greed coz if u really love him/her dpat naa jud kay TRUST sa iya... don't be so selfish of ur feelings for that person... mgTrust and confident lng jud ka dpat n love ka niya without any pretentions or anything that would cause ur realtionship into nothing...^_^
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dpende na sa imong pagsabot kng love or greed... kng you love the way he protects you then go.. kng dli pud then will consider it na greed na...
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candzy_angel wrote:dpende na sa imong pagsabot kng love or greed... kng you love the way he protects you then go.. kng dli pud then will consider it na greed na...
Mao pud ba! whew!
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