How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Share
    avatar
    ruzzychai330
    Friend
    Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 33
    Age : 32
    Location : Davao City
    User Post Points :
    0 / 1000 / 100

    Points : -3
    Registration date : 2007-11-13

    Admin How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  ruzzychai330 on Wed Nov 14, 2007 2:57 am

    First, this topic is not for me ok? I have a healthy relationship right now. Madami lang ako kakilala right now na their relationships are falling apart and lumalapit sa ko asking for advice on what to do and how to get over with their boyfriend or girlfriend daw. Come On! heheh, ako p jud pangutan-on!

    If ever you were in their situation, you had the relationship for almost 5 years, 2 years or kahit lang years tapos that relatioship end so badly that you have to forget that person na no matter what. What will you do to get over with that someone na nakasakit sau. Na pinapafeel saun ur not even important to him/her and don't even give a damn on how you fell and how you will feel? dila
    avatar
    Nessan™
    Site Master
    Site Master

    Male
    Number of posts : 1049
    Age : 33
    Location : Far-From-Earth
    User Post Points :
    100 / 100100 / 100

    Points : 144
    Registration date : 2007-09-10

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  Nessan™ on Wed Nov 14, 2007 4:23 am

    Hahaha you know why sayo sila lumalapit?

    1. kasi marami ka ng experience about love :lol:
    2. iba man gud imo dating when it comes to love hehehe :cheers:
    3. abi guro nila ikaw si doctor love hakhak lol!


    _________________
    www.davao.forumotion.com
    avatar
    ruzzychai330
    Friend
    Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 33
    Age : 32
    Location : Davao City
    User Post Points :
    0 / 1000 / 100

    Points : -3
    Registration date : 2007-11-13

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  ruzzychai330 on Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:49 am

    buing ka ness! lolz, ambot ana nila woi. unsay daghan experience? tama2x ra daw woi. lol!
    avatar
    nasty_gurl
    Friend
    Friend

    Number of posts : 10
    User Post Points :
    0 / 1000 / 100

    Points : 0
    Registration date : 2007-11-13

    Admin love..

    Post  nasty_gurl on Fri Nov 16, 2007 4:58 am

    just love yourself more...do what you really like... wag mag.mokmok tapos cry and cry nalang..its pointless!!! lalo lang pinapahirapan ang sarili...Pamper yourself..with good manicure, facial and body massage..Gawin yung mga bagay na di mo nagawa when you were still in that stupid relationship...and above all join in an organization that would enhance your talents, skills..JUST KEEP YOURSELF BUSY AND PRE-OCCUPIED..wag maging martyr na hahabulin mo pa kahit ayaw na sau..just say to yourself..IT's DEFINITELY NOT MY LOST..prove to him that you are the best!! and he's so stupid to have left you..make yourself successful in your own field..in the end SUCCESS is the GREATEST REVENGE!!! naglagot bunal bunal
    avatar
    kitty_n
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 494
    Age : 29
    Location : living room
    User Post Points :
    100 / 100100 / 100

    Points : 25
    Registration date : 2007-09-11

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  kitty_n on Thu Jan 24, 2008 9:07 pm

    wow..8s hard tlga..

    i hope i know how..panu nga ba? hilak
    avatar
    sUzEttE
    Global Administrator
    Global Administrator

    Female
    Number of posts : 913
    Age : 30
    Location : -top of the world-
    User Post Points :
    100 / 100100 / 100

    Points : 19
    Registration date : 2007-09-23

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  sUzEttE on Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:24 am

    Getting over with someone is truly hard, as hard as like this Kugmo ..hihi...once LOVe hits you exactly right on your heart...no matter how long you've been together. It would turn even harder if you take all the blames credited on you rather than sharing it with him/her for this good enough reason, "he/she don't give a damn on how you fell and how you will feel". Well, the best thing you can do is to confront that person by all means like letter(kung uso pa na sa imo), text, email or better 1on1 ( ai di nako na kaya kay dalagang bukid ko or ulitawong bukid ko... naglagot..why not???put away that kind of stupid thinking) . Don't be afraid to tell how you are badly damage. With that , he/she might realize something. It might bring positive or negative reaction towards the remains of your relationship...kung wa gihapon epek..Hmmm...ipabarang nalang nato!!! dila Pointless kc f u kip on trying to get over kung d mo nailabas lahat ng nafefeel mo. The time after that would be the best "TIME" for you to move on and finally make a real step of getting over...And if you already have another one, avoid your head keep on turning back from the past instead try to see the value of what you have in the present. Okeeee Kugmo ????
    avatar
    -LuVLi-
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 440
    Location : nod oznerol
    User Post Points :
    15 / 10015 / 100

    Points : 37
    Registration date : 2007-11-05

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  -LuVLi- on Fri May 02, 2008 4:07 pm

    aww...

    ahihihihi

    HOW?

    ka sayon lng ah!

    PAGHIKOG OIE!

    di ba malimtan jud nimo

    looooooooooooool

    :twisted:
    avatar
    Rift_Elemental
    Global Administrator
    Global Administrator

    Female
    Number of posts : 372
    Age : 33
    Location : Dirty South
    User Post Points :
    100 / 100100 / 100

    Points : 18
    Registration date : 2008-05-16

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  Rift_Elemental on Tue May 20, 2008 6:52 pm

    ruzzychai330 wrote:First, this topic is not for me ok? I have a healthy relationship right now. Madami lang ako kakilala right now na their relationships are falling apart and lumalapit sa ko asking for advice on what to do and how to get over with their boyfriend or girlfriend daw. Come On! heheh, ako p jud pangutan-on!

    If ever you were in their situation, you had the relationship for almost 5 years, 2 years or kahit lang years tapos that relatioship end so badly that you have to forget that person na no matter what. What will you do to get over with that someone na nakasakit sau. Na pinapafeel saun ur not even important to him/her and don't even give a damn on how you fell and how you will feel? dila

    oh i can answer this...time is the key...and denial will never be the answer...there is no EASY way to forget someone who had been a part of your life for what 5yrs? there are lots of memories and struggles in between...

    i will always acknowledge the fact that despite the DAMN pain of neglect and rejection...LOVE will never leave my heart that easily.

    everything takes time...dont rush it..jst feel and nurse the pain...in due time...you will get tired...and find yourself smiling again.
    hekhek


    _________________
    avatar
    bLiNDmUstBe
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Male
    Number of posts : 356
    Location : Middle of Nowhere
    User Post Points :
    15 / 10015 / 100

    Points : 0
    Registration date : 2008-05-12

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  bLiNDmUstBe on Wed May 21, 2008 10:08 pm

    dpnde lng na` sa dwende.. kung hawd ka mu jamming.. pak! mao na to! lol.. ngisi
    avatar
    |{`angelkienne`}|
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 189
    Age : 29
    Location : where angels live...=)
    User Post Points :
    15 / 10015 / 100

    Points : 6
    Registration date : 2008-05-11

    Admin I like your opinion ate Mae!:)

    Post  |{`angelkienne`}| on Fri May 23, 2008 11:10 am

    It's easy to get over with someone easily as long as you have somebody to replace with.

    Naman. It's not that you're taking for granted the past relationship you were once with.

    or you're making panakip butas the someone new. But that would help to forget the pain

    and hatred. It's far different you have someone new which is a panakip butas and which

    is not.

    Diba? Just a piece of advice, strengthen your coping mech baka kasi you would

    end up in a mental institution or kung meh suicidal tendency ka you would end up killing

    yourself. Totoo yan maraming ganyan sa society ngayon.:)

    Know your worth. Love yourself far better than anyone else. Selfish ka nga pero

    mas maganda yan kay sa sa nasasaktan ka.:) cupid
    avatar
    Babyselosa
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 954
    Age : 29
    Location : City of tuNOk˛..
    User Post Points :
    60 / 10060 / 100

    Points : -3
    Registration date : 2008-05-02

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  Babyselosa on Wed May 28, 2008 11:46 am

    Weeh..Kini˛ ky murag auz au ni na`topic!
    Hmm..How to get over sum1 easily?!
    Ani ni xa oh..

    1st: Believe in “time heals everything”.
    When somebody leaves you,
    remember that you are still the same person.
    It's okay to feel down. It's normal!
    You are in the mourning stage.

    2nd: Do not date old flings or exes to feel better.
    This is a big NO.. Hilak-2
    Remember, you are vulnerable after a break up
    and anyone can take advantage of you
    when you are feeling vulnerable. Pahong

    3rd: Do not call your ex..
    At this stage, you are still in denial.
    Prove to him/her that you are
    mature enough to handle the situation. che

    4th: Focus on other things!
    Get involved in activities that you
    never had the time to do before.
    Spend time with your friends
    or find a new hobby. Cool-1
    You’ll just end up hurting yourself
    even more and it is not fair with the
    person you are dating. ka sweet ni kuya

    5th: Get out and socialize –
    Go out with your friends,
    meet new people and make new friends. ngisi

    And lastly, Once you have reached the
    acceptance stage and have had the time to heal,
    get out and date again. ka sweet ni kuya
    Don’t give all your time and attention
    to this new person.. cupid

    Naks! Mao na xa ang TAMA nga advice..l
    Check it OUT! lol!
    avatar
    `POLLY
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 433
    Age : 30
    Location : don't be such a bitch... BITCH!!!
    User Post Points :
    30 / 10030 / 100

    Points : 7
    Registration date : 2008-06-06

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  `POLLY on Fri Jun 06, 2008 9:55 pm

    tough question. LOL
    once it took me 3 months to move-on (it sucks.. i know)
    LOL.
    I usually hang-out with mah friends.
    avatar
    EmO_NaTiCz
    Friend
    Friend

    Male
    Number of posts : 34
    Age : 28
    Location : Emo Landia! Lolz!
    User Post Points :
    0 / 1000 / 100

    Points : 0
    Registration date : 2007-09-22

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  EmO_NaTiCz on Mon Jun 16, 2008 7:57 pm

    aw... haha.. try this tips from my non-expert advices:

    -make urself busy as you can...
    -Dont hate him/her.. instead luv him/her or respect his/her decision..
    -Dont try to look for "panakip butas" it only makes you miss her/him much more..
    -do not get drunk..lol.. does that make d pain fade away? yes... but for a moment..not a long term goal..haha..
    - forgive and but do not forget...
    -make ur friends close to you and ur enemies closer..(if its a bad break-up)


    and lastly...

    - Pick-up the pieces... but never put them back... =(




    ( Ayaw mo react..! advice ra na..! from my experience...hahahaha..lol!)
    weeeeeeeeeeeee....... Make Love Not War...!
    cupid
    avatar
    kitty_n
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 494
    Age : 29
    Location : living room
    User Post Points :
    100 / 100100 / 100

    Points : 25
    Registration date : 2007-09-11

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  kitty_n on Sat Jul 05, 2008 9:00 am

    Rift_Elemental wrote:
    ruzzychai330 wrote:First, this topic is not for me ok? I have a healthy relationship right now. Madami lang ako kakilala right now na their relationships are falling apart and lumalapit sa ko asking for advice on what to do and how to get over with their boyfriend or girlfriend daw. Come On! heheh, ako p jud pangutan-on!

    If ever you were in their situation, you had the relationship for almost 5 years, 2 years or kahit lang years tapos that relatioship end so badly that you have to forget that person na no matter what. What will you do to get over with that someone na nakasakit sau. Na pinapafeel saun ur not even important to him/her and don't even give a damn on how you fell and how you will feel? dila

    oh i can answer this...time is the key...and denial will never be the answer...there is no EASY way to forget someone who had been a part of your life for what 5yrs? there are lots of memories and struggles in between...

    i will always acknowledge the fact that despite the DAMN pain of neglect and rejection...LOVE will never leave my heart that easily.

    everything takes time...dont rush it..jst feel and nurse the pain...in due time...you will get tired...and find yourself smiling again.
    hekhek

    I agreekorek jud kau Rift_Elemental bah..

    TIME lng jd can heal..ug kanang acceptance sd ngisi
    avatar
    `POLLY
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 433
    Age : 30
    Location : don't be such a bitch... BITCH!!!
    User Post Points :
    30 / 10030 / 100

    Points : 7
    Registration date : 2008-06-06

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  `POLLY on Sat Jul 12, 2008 1:57 pm

    @ kitty_n

    well said! time and acceptance!
    avatar
    kitty_n
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 494
    Age : 29
    Location : living room
    User Post Points :
    100 / 100100 / 100

    Points : 25
    Registration date : 2007-09-11

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  kitty_n on Tue Jul 15, 2008 9:51 am

    if breaking up is hard to do

    moving on may seem harder..

    dpat u focus on healing rather than regret or revenge.
    otherwise u'll get stuck lng with anger.
    just remember lng na
    everyone recovers from a breakup in their own timetable.... Sad
    avatar
    sexy_lady
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 282
    Age : 32
    Location : _=*LaNd 0f PrOmiS3*=__
    User Post Points :
    30 / 10030 / 100

    Points : 0
    Registration date : 2008-07-03

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  sexy_lady on Fri Aug 15, 2008 9:59 am

    kitty_n wrote:if breaking up is hard to do

    moving on may seem harder..

    dpat u focus on healing rather than regret or revenge.
    otherwise u'll get stuck lng with anger.
    just remember lng na
    everyone recovers from a breakup in their own timetable.... Sad


    yup korek ka jan kit......

    in my xperience kc....almost 8yrs relationship and natapos

    lang ng bigla2x and so hurt for me....hilak hilak

    its not easy 2 forget and not easy 2 move on....Sad

    hindi nman kc ganun2x lang mawawala un lahat dba?...

    lalo na pagmahal mo tlaga ang isang ta0!!!lol!

    avatar
    candzy_angel
    Administrator
    Administrator

    Female
    Number of posts : 1751
    Age : 35
    Location : diri og didto
    User Post Points :
    100 / 100100 / 100

    Points : 21
    Registration date : 2008-07-18

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  candzy_angel on Fri Aug 15, 2008 2:33 pm

    It's not simple as 1, 2, 3 in getting over with someone...
    but I can say that...
    • you need time to heal,
    • change routine or hobbies that makes you more busy...
    • don't find someone new to make things better, but make new friends
    • hangout with your friends.
    • make yourself busy with something na di mo maalala ang hurt and pain...
    • but the best is acceptance na wala na ang taong minamahal mo...
    hilak-nasad
    avatar
    joyce
    Best Friend
    Best Friend

    Female
    Number of posts : 354
    Age : 30
    Location : davao city
    User Post Points :
    25 / 10025 / 100

    Points : 28
    Registration date : 2008-06-06

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  joyce on Tue Aug 19, 2008 11:34 am

    LEARNING TO LOVE HIM/HER MORE THAN HOW YOU HAD LOVE HIM/HER WHEN HE/SHE WAS STILL YOURS....

    THIS IS THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER WITH SOMEONE EASILY...

    OFTEN AFTER EVERY RELATIONSHIP WE HAD, EVEN OUR FRIENDLY RELATIONSHIP....

    WHEN IT IS STAINED...

    WHEN WE HAD BREAK-UPS...

    WHEN WE DECIDE TO END THE RELATIONSHIP....

    THE NEXT THING THAT CONFUSES US IS....

    HOW WILL WE ACT AFTER?.....

    HOW WILL WE DEAL WITH HIM/HER AFTER?....

    WELL, I WOULD DEFINITELY SAY....

    LOVE HIM/HER MORE...

    LOVE THEM MORE...

    SOUNDS IRONIC TLAGA.... ahmm pero its the best trick and secret to lessen the pain and move on.... mahalin mo ang mga taong minahal mo dati ng higit pah s pagmamahal na bingay mo s kanila, kahit sinaktan k man nila or hindi, kapag natutunan mo silang mahalin after k nilang sinaktan, i tell you, marunong k tlaga magmahal, and totoo k magmahal... kaya the next thing in line for you, may magmamahal din sau ng tapat at totoo.... hekhek

    Kugmo

    Sponsored content

    Admin Re: How to get over with someone.. EASILY!

    Post  Sponsored content


      Current date/time is Thu Aug 17, 2017 11:53 am