The good news is hurt feelings are not fatal... You don't have to die from your pain... Pain doesn't have to be a lifestyle... Contentment and happiness can be made in spite of it... The real questions are, are you willing to do what it takes to have contentment and happiness anyway in a relationship?! Do you have to suppress everything that's bad for you to have happiness or contentment in life/relationship?! or You will just face the truth of being in pain just to forgive somebody?! whew!