What's hard in saying SORRY?!

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    Post  YaNa~ on Wed Dec 24, 2008 11:19 pm

    Bakit nga ba mahirap mag-sorry minsan? Let me read some of your thoughts with this one guys...^_^
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    Post  candzy_angel on Fri Dec 26, 2008 1:19 pm

    Well, a Sorry is the simplest word to say but because of pride o ego ng isang tao mahirap itong sabihin. We sometimes think "why should I say I'm Sorry it's not my fault" i hate you but sometimes saying I'm sorry making just simple accepting things na kasalan mo if it really your fault pero kng ibang tao I guess you have to talk to the person.
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    Post  YaNa~ on Fri Dec 26, 2008 10:04 pm

    I think it is just because of being selfish to others as well as to yourself... There are really some of us who are afraid of this 5-letter word... They can't just accept the fact that they have committed such mistake... Parang ang bigat na for them to say sorry to someone na nasaktan nila... whew! nangluod
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    Post  candzy_angel on Sat Dec 27, 2008 10:14 am

    Sometimes mahirap para sa ibang tao magsorry sa'yo kasi in the first place you never said the word "Sorry din sa ibang tao". Kung ibang tao may kasalan sa'yo if that's the case try to talk to the person yana, kng di nya kayang sabihin try mo magapakumbaba.
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    Post  YaNa~ on Sat Dec 27, 2008 10:56 am

    candzy_angel wrote:Sometimes mahirap para sa ibang tao magsorry sa'yo kasi in the first place you never said the word "Sorry din sa ibang tao". Kung ibang tao may kasalan sa'yo if that's the case try to talk to the person yana, kng di nya kayang sabihin try mo magapakumbaba.

    Wahehe ako pla 'yong issue?! LOL whew!

    Anyway, tnx Candzy sa advice... Yeah, actually I'm the only one who's trying to reach Him if ako 'yong may kasalanan tlga and vice versa lng... give and take lng kami... but, I admit na most of the time, siya tlga 'yong umiintindi... wahehe
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    Post  candzy_angel on Sat Dec 27, 2008 4:04 pm

    aw, wala man naq na tuyo na kay I'm addressing it to you, kaw kasi naga hingi ng advice.. sorry po! ngisi lol! off-topic


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    Post  YaNa~ on Sat Dec 27, 2008 7:19 pm

    Toinks! chox lng na dai oi... binuang ra ng ako... whew! ngisi off-topic
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    Post  sUzEttE on Sun Dec 28, 2008 4:18 am

    yah true, a simple word but requires the heftiest word to surrender, ur ego.
    but if you put it into practice dali lang man, i don't mean juz simply saying "churi" (kai pila rai paglitok og sori) but you must consider that it's ol ur fault even dli pa ikaw ang sad-an...
    cuz for me, admittance takes out heavy feelings of saying sori.


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    Post  Babyselosa on Sun Dec 28, 2008 6:59 pm

    Hmmm wla may lisud sa mag sorry bsta di bug-at imo nabuhat na sala..
    pero kung hastang bug-ata, tsk! hard to say im sorry jud.. LOL
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    Post  YaNa~ on Sun Dec 28, 2008 11:18 pm

    @ Gang Zette: ur ryt gang.... whew! indeed, it is the only way for you to have peace...in heart and in mind...^_^

    @ Gang Cindy: LOL!
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    Post  Gladisia on Mon Dec 29, 2008 8:58 am

    lay lain reason nganong lisod ilitok ang word nga "sorry" kundi...

    PRIDE! PRIDE! PRIDE!

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    Post  Babyselosa on Mon Dec 29, 2008 2:37 pm

    Hahaha PRIDE jud btaw sis!

    Kanang mga taas ug PRIDE dra!!!

    hmm paki'baba daw bi ky baba na bya ang gasolina..

    ug ni'baba na ang pamasahe! off-topic
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    Post  YaNa~ on Mon Dec 29, 2008 4:10 pm

    Tsk! kauna n lng nang PRIDE ninyo... wahehe ngisi
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    Post  gang on Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:17 am

    Saying sorry means you are guilty. Haha

    And it bruises your ego as a person, since admitting a mistake is harder than admitting that you are right.

    Ug labaw na kung dako kaayo na sala ang ginastoryahan nato. xD Kay kung simpleng bagay lang na like nabanggaan taka habang naglakaw ko, syempre, mag sorry jud ta.
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    Post  Gladisia on Thu Jan 08, 2009 7:18 am

    gang wrote:Saying sorry means you are guilty. Haha

    And it bruises your ego as a person, since admitting a mistake is harder than admitting that you are right.

    Ug labaw na kung dako kaayo na sala ang ginastoryahan nato. xD Kay kung simpleng bagay lang na like nabanggaan taka habang naglakaw ko, syempre, mag sorry jud ta.



    mao man... korek jud ka gang! lisod jud mag-sorry oie... pareha nako la pa jud ko nag-sorry sako ate... bungol mi hangtod ron... hahai... maldita siya, maldita man pud ko... pareho mi duha ma-pride... sad-an man unta mi duha... la lang jud magpababa sa amoa... Sad

    pero dapat diba ako?! kay manghod man ko... hahai! ambot oie...
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    Post  XiArRa(@@) on Thu Jan 08, 2009 9:30 pm

    Panget_18 wrote:
    gang wrote:Saying sorry means you are guilty. Haha

    And it bruises your ego as a person, since admitting a mistake is harder than admitting that you are right.

    Ug labaw na kung dako kaayo na sala ang ginastoryahan nato. xD Kay kung simpleng bagay lang na like nabanggaan taka habang naglakaw ko, syempre, mag sorry jud ta.



    mao man... korek jud ka gang! lisod jud mag-sorry oie... pareha nako la pa jud ko nag-sorry sako ate... bungol mi hangtod ron... hahai... maldita siya, maldita man pud ko... pareho mi duha ma-pride... sad-an man unta mi duha... la lang jud magpababa sa amoa... Sad

    pero dapat diba ako?! kay manghod man ko... hahai! ambot oie...


    clap KOREK mga dhai!!!

    hilak-nasad gision ang pride bi!!!
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    Post  YaNa~ on Fri Jan 09, 2009 10:55 am

    'Coz some are afraid of the consequences... Yeah, 'coz of ur pride, it seems so hard for you to say sorry to someone... though sabihin natin na best of friends kayo, dili na jud mawala ang sakit na nabuhat nimo... labi na if dako jud imong sala... maskin pila pa ka-sorry imong iingon, maskin muluhod pa ka sa iyang atubangan, ug maskin gipasaylo na ka niya, cguro ok na mo pro dili na jud mawala ug ana kadali ang sakit... Saying sorry will not get back the trust of someone that easy... You have to prove again yourself... It's just a cycle... So, the lesson is, before uttering the 5-letter word "SORRY", just prepare for the consequences and mean it! Kahit masaktan ka man, just go on and prove yourself to that person that you are worth of his/her forgiveness...^_^
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    Post  |{`angelkienne`}| on Tue Jan 13, 2009 1:02 am

    Difficult man magsabi ng sorry sa mga taong egocentric individuals. Yang matataas ang ID! hehe. Also, human's perception towards apologizing degrades it's individuality which i believe is not. Kugmo It depends on how you view that kind of circumstance. char? makata! hehe
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    Post  candzy_angel on Tue Jan 13, 2009 11:56 am

    Di naman mahirap mag sorry as along as u admitted na kasalan mo... at least walang fighting... kailangan siguro babaan ang pride...


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    Post  YaNa~ on Tue Jan 13, 2009 7:56 pm

    Pero iba na if sorry means goodbye... Sad
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    Post  Lord_Arjay on Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:01 pm

    Okay lang man musulti ug SORRY. its better to say that word para marelieve ka sa imong mga sala na gipanghimo. Dapat lang gyud, ibaba ang pride ug be sincere to say sorry diba... yun lang bow!

    ngisi ngisi


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    Post  -LuVLi- on Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:19 pm

    mahirap mn tlagah mag sori oi..lalo na kong u dont mean it!amft!
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    Post  Lord_Arjay on Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:26 pm

    LuVLi wrote:mahirap mn tlagah mag sori oi..lalo na kong u dont mean it!amft!

    Aw ana diay na Luvli...? hehehe... Pero kung kaya nimo musulti ug Sorry eh why not diba... Just tell him/her na mali ako... ganun lang, tapos... Pero it depends gihapon sa sitwasyon diba..

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    Post  -LuVLi- on Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:28 pm

    Lord_Arjay wrote:
    LuVLi wrote:mahirap mn tlagah mag sori oi..lalo na kong u dont mean it!amft!

    Aw ana diay na Luvli...? hehehe... Pero kung kaya nimo musulti ug Sorry eh why not diba... Just tell him/her na mali ako... ganun lang, tapos... Pero it depends gihapon sa sitwasyon diba..

    ngisi ngisi


    mahirap parin...

    y say sori if u dont mean it?!!!

    useless di buh?

    wag nlng..

    huhuhuhu
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    Post  Lord_Arjay on Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:45 pm

    LuVLi wrote:
    Lord_Arjay wrote:
    LuVLi wrote:mahirap mn tlagah mag sori oi..lalo na kong u dont mean it!amft!

    Aw ana diay na Luvli...? hehehe... Pero kung kaya nimo musulti ug Sorry eh why not diba... Just tell him/her na mali ako... ganun lang, tapos... Pero it depends gihapon sa sitwasyon diba..

    ngisi ngisi


    mahirap parin...

    y say sori if u dont mean it?!!!

    useless di buh?

    wag nlng..

    huhuhuhu

    Ganun bah... hhmmm... depende pa rin kung paano mo idedeliver ang SORRY mo...


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