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    Post  pitoy_bali on Mon Dec 08, 2008 10:20 am

    Please read the guidelines for this thread below...

    1. Hindi ka sinasagot ng nililigawan mo.
    2. Hindi mo masabi sa crush mo na crush/mahal mo xa.
    3. Nagsasawa ka na sa BF/GF mo.
    4. May problem sa relationship nyo at gusto mo pa itong isave/masave.
    5. 2 to many ang BF/GF mo.
    6. May GF/BF kana pero may gusto ka pa na iba.
    7. Hindi mo makalimutan ang ex mo.
    8. Gusto mo na manligaw pero hindi mo alam kung paano.

    Kung swak na swak ang problema nyo sa mga nakalista sa itaas, wag nang mgdalawang isip pa.... Post na....
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    Post  bLiNDmUstBe on Mon Dec 08, 2008 1:43 pm

    9. Long Distance Relationship kami.. ngisi
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    Post  pitoy_bali on Mon Dec 15, 2008 9:46 am

    tsk..tsk.. mahirap yan bro... 90% sa mga couple may problema sa long distance relationship... lalo na ang mga males....
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    Post  -LuVLi- on Mon Dec 15, 2008 11:49 am

    3. Nagsasawa ka na sa BF/GF mo.

    AYT GAE KO ADVYS BEH...AHIHIHIHI
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    Post  pitoy_bali on Tue Dec 16, 2008 7:09 pm

    LuVLi wrote:3. Nagsasawa ka na sa BF/GF mo.

    AYT GAE KO ADVYS BEH...AHIHIHIHI

    Aheem... naa diay ka love problem? love moderator ka pa naman... hehehe..


    anyway, pwede pakibigay ung details about jan sa problem mo?
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    Post  sUzEttE on Wed Dec 17, 2008 6:29 am

    pitoy_bali wrote:
    LuVLi wrote:3. Nagsasawa ka na sa BF/GF mo.

    AYT GAE KO ADVYS BEH...AHIHIHIHI

    Aheem... naa diay ka love problem? love moderator ka pa naman... hehehe..


    anyway, pwede pakibigay ung details about jan sa problem mo?

    well, being in the position doesn't mean they'll be excuse in such problem...
    xempre tao lng ta...anyone may encounter any problem because it was how we're designed.

    bitaw2 luvli share aron tavangan og naa ikatavang...


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    Post  -LuVLi- on Wed Dec 17, 2008 2:19 pm

    pitoy_bali wrote:
    LuVLi wrote:3. Nagsasawa ka na sa BF/GF mo.

    AYT GAE KO ADVYS BEH...AHIHIHIHI

    Aheem... naa diay ka love problem? love moderator ka pa naman... hehehe..


    anyway, pwede pakibigay ung details about jan sa problem mo?




    KANE KANE

    sugdan nko ha...


    ahihihihi

    maglagot ko oie..

    wa nay laing huna huna
    panuway kau

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    hmmmmm...

    cg nlng pamakak
    tas
    conceited kau
    tas
    selfish pa jud
    walay consideration...

    erps

    bulagan nimo manghadlok daun ug kuan..

    di magwrk
    di mukaon
    magpakamatay dw xa..


    hahhahahahah

    unsa may maau buhaton ani..

    ipapatay gne unta nko

    looy man pod..

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    Post  YaNa~ on Wed Dec 17, 2008 4:31 pm

    LuVLi wrote:
    pitoy_bali wrote:
    LuVLi wrote:3. Nagsasawa ka na sa BF/GF mo.

    AYT GAE KO ADVYS BEH...AHIHIHIHI

    Aheem... naa diay ka love problem? love moderator ka pa naman... hehehe..


    anyway, pwede pakibigay ung details about jan sa problem mo?




    KANE KANE

    sugdan nko ha...


    ahihihihi

    maglagot ko oie..

    wa nay laing huna huna
    panuway kau

    lols


    hmmmmm...

    cg nlng pamakak
    tas
    conceited kau
    tas
    selfish pa jud
    walay consideration...

    erps

    bulagan nimo manghadlok daun ug kuan..

    di magwrk
    di mukaon
    magpakamatay dw xa..


    hahhahahahah

    unsa may maau buhaton ani..

    ipapatay gne unta nko

    looy man pod..

    lols

    Hmmm... First thing to do is to seriously consider his threats na magpakamatay, though you or should I say we think na dili na nya mabuhat, you'll never know... bsta ani na gane ginaingon sa isa ka tao naa na syay borderline personality disorder... and you should take it seriously as wat I've said...

    Second, is to talk to him privately... I can say that he's being dependent sa imo which is not really good for the both you... If it will continue that way, both of u will suffer kay lisod na mag let go, labi n sa imong part kay ikaw ang girl though ginaingon nimo na nagasawa na ka or wat sa iya, ryt?... still, having a conversation to him, being honest to your feelings about him, and letting him/giving him the chance to talk about the situation kay importante jud... Just confront him, wag ka magpadala sa mga threats nya... be firm!

    Third, be consistent... if u want to break up with him, then be it! and don't give any false hope reassurance sa iya... 'coz it may trigger his suicidal thoughts... and in the end, ikaw magsuffer... on the other hand, if u want to continue of what you've started, then both of u should try to make things ryt... and try to involve his/your family about it, or pwede na rin ang friends pra my guidance kayo or significant others na pwede nyo rin hingan ng tulong if ever... just be open to them...

    Lastly, if you really love him then don't let your mind and heart suffer... just be true to yourself... and as we all know, the greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return... so there's no way of making things complicated... just remember that what lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us...^_^

    Sana nakatulong ako... hehe god bless!


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    Post  Rift_Elemental on Wed Dec 17, 2008 8:34 pm

    2. Hindi mo masabi sa crush mo na crush/mahal mo xa.


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    Post  candzy_angel on Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:50 am

    Rift_Elemental wrote:2. Hindi mo masabi sa crush mo na crush/mahal mo xa.

    y not? di mo malalaman ang sagot niya kng di mo sasabihin sa kanya. If ever man sagutin nya tanong mo kng "he will love you back or not" accept it. Don't hold back huwag kang pangunahan ng takot mo.
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    Post  `POLLY on Thu Dec 18, 2008 1:01 pm

    4. May problem sa relationship nyo at gusto mo pa itong isave/masave.
    - putaness! hopeless romantic ang banat..
    xet! xet!


    POLLY iS ON THE VERGE OF GOiNG CRAZY
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    Post  YaNa~ on Fri Dec 19, 2008 4:26 pm

    `POLLY wrote:4. May problem sa relationship nyo at gusto mo pa itong isave/masave.
    - putaness! hopeless romantic ang banat..
    xet! xet!

    POLLY iS ON THE VERGE OF GOiNG CRAZY

    Open communication is important for this situation... try to hear each other's point about the situation... both of u should work for it then you'll decide after...
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    Post  pitoy_bali on Fri Dec 19, 2008 5:04 pm

    LuVLi wrote:
    pitoy_bali wrote:
    LuVLi wrote:3. Nagsasawa ka na sa BF/GF mo.

    AYT GAE KO ADVYS BEH...AHIHIHIHI

    Aheem... naa diay ka love problem? love moderator ka pa naman... hehehe..


    anyway, pwede pakibigay ung details about jan sa problem mo?




    KANE KANE

    sugdan nko ha...


    ahihihihi

    maglagot ko oie..

    wa nay laing huna huna
    panuway kau

    lols


    hmmmmm...

    cg nlng pamakak
    tas
    conceited kau
    tas
    selfish pa jud
    walay consideration...

    erps

    bulagan nimo manghadlok daun ug kuan..

    di magwrk
    di mukaon
    magpakamatay dw xa..


    hahhahahahah

    unsa may maau buhaton ani..

    ipapatay gne unta nko

    looy man pod..

    lols


    Ahheem... pasenxa na kung karon lang ko nakareply... nabusy lang sa work....


    murag lisod2x ni nga kaso... pero naa ka japon pag-asa....

    kanang mgcge ug sulti nga mgpaka-matay? istorya lang man na...ayaw ug tuo sa isa ka tao kung naay mgstorya ana... pero be careful, risky pud na xa kaau (basig tinud-on hinuon)... dapat naa kay good timing kung bulagan/biyaan/ilisan nimo xa... the steps below might help...

    1. dapat naa mo sa neutral place (public places like parks, malls, or pwede pud sa church)
    - okay kung naa mo sa neutral place para mafeel sa both parties ang pressure, in short, low kaau ang chances nga mgwild imong bf... maulaw man...
    2. dapat naa xa sa good mood.
    - ang kailangan lang nimo diri kay, timing, timing ug timing....
    3. pahibal-a iyang parents or magtalk mo together with his parents para at least safe ka if ever nga mgpakamatay jud xa.
    4. pagbuhat ug sala (kanang taboo kaau para sa iyaha para sure2x)...
    - dapat mglagot xa sa imoha...
    - dapat ang love mahimo nga hate...
    5. iparealize sa iyaha nga enough is enough...
    - be true to your self
    - always, makatabang ang honesty.
    - tell him about the reason(s) why biyaan/ilisan/bulagan nimo xa.

    Major points to think of base sa imong problem (imoha nga side lang ni ha?):
    1. short term - maluoy ka sa imong bf kay maghubog,magwild or mgpakamatay
    2. long term - ikaw ang kalolooy pag-abot sa panahon.... like, dili nimo mabuhat ang mga things nga dapat mabuhat.

    Kung love pa jud nimo xa, then, walay reason nga iconsider nimo ang steps above. Please take note nga angay lang na xa (steps) kung hopeless na jud ka... Why not, mgtalk mo sa imong bf? try to talk and maybe something might work out. In fairness pud sa imong bf, basig love lang jud ka niya kaau... basig u're just listening to what he says but not hearing 'em at all? basig naa sa imoha ang mali? basig nacondition nimo xa nga mg-anad xa about anang pagpakamatay nya?

    Pero, one thing lang jud akong masulti nga sure jud nga maka realize ka.... Think about yourself, be selfish, ask yourself 'How about me?'... 'A person who put others first will always end up last'.

    I hope makatabang ni akong tambag sa imoha....

    if you have comments and suggestions, please let me know.
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    Post  pitoy_bali on Fri Dec 19, 2008 5:06 pm

    candzy_angel wrote:
    Rift_Elemental wrote:2. Hindi mo masabi sa crush mo na crush/mahal mo xa.

    y not? di mo malalaman ang sagot niya kng di mo sasabihin sa kanya. If ever man sagutin nya tanong mo kng "he will love you back or not" accept it. Don't hold back huwag kang pangunahan ng takot mo.

    please consider namn ung mga torpe types of people...
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    Post  YaNa~ on Mon Dec 22, 2008 11:46 pm

    pitoy_bali wrote:
    candzy_angel wrote:
    Rift_Elemental wrote:2. Hindi mo masabi sa crush mo na crush/mahal mo xa.

    y not? di mo malalaman ang sagot niya kng di mo sasabihin sa kanya. If ever man sagutin nya tanong mo kng "he will love you back or not" accept it. Don't hold back huwag kang pangunahan ng takot mo.

    please consider namn ung mga torpe types of people...

    Korek... hehe
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    Post  candzy_angel on Tue Dec 23, 2008 10:17 am

    uu, tama yung mga torpe, pero sila din kasi nakikiramdam lng din kasi sa mga girls kng may feeling ba o wala.
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    Post  YaNa~ on Tue Dec 23, 2008 8:56 pm

    Just be true to yourself as well as to that person... Show respect for each other's feelings... ngisi
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    Post  Babyselosa on Mon Dec 29, 2008 5:49 pm

    6. May GF/BF kana pero may gusto ka pa na iba..

    wew.. hmm nka-xperience nko ani sa una..hmp!
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    Post  pitoy_bali on Mon Mar 02, 2009 10:03 am

    Hello I am back....

    Pwede paki explain unsa ang imong nafeel/experience?

    Babyselosa wrote:6. May GF/BF kana pero may gusto ka pa na iba..

    wew.. hmm nka-xperience nko ani sa una..hmp!
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    Post  joyce on Tue Jun 09, 2009 11:39 am

    ```pwede ako mu-explain... lol! juk lang

    ```wla man koy ma-post oi... pacenxa nah kay nasaag ko dri ha...

    lol

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