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    Post  Babyselosa on Sat Oct 25, 2008 7:34 pm

    well for me, im not exactly sure but i think
    that its kinda most guys are more chill than girls..

    they tend to think about having fun,
    and they just dont really care all that much
    about how they look, but if they are trying to
    impress a girl, they will seem like they have
    a big ego because they are tying to impress
    a girl by telling/showing her all their good qualities..

    We are very harsh critics, especially
    to ourselves and other women..Kugmo

    we pay attention to every little detail
    so we are more likely find fault with ourselves.. i hate you


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    Post  sUzEttE on Sat Oct 25, 2008 11:10 pm

    man triggers a woman to work on improving their looks b'cuz most man focuses more on physical..that is for man-woman reason..

    pero kung woman-woman..hmmm...most man gud sa mga babae kay very blunt...what they see is what they say...u know, faultfinders...and that makes her insecure and draws all her attention more on bad or unacceptable detail she has...and so nadedisregard nalang pod ang nice things she is possessing of which suppose could help her think how fair God is...and that falls on discontentment and covetousness. huna-huna


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    Post  Babyselosa on Mon Oct 27, 2008 10:43 am

    sUzEttE wrote:man triggers a woman to work on improving their looks b'cuz most man focuses more on physical..that is for man-woman reason..

    pero kung woman-woman..hmmm...most man gud sa mga babae kay very blunt...what they see is what they say...u know, faultfinders...and that makes her insecure and draws all her attention more on bad or unacceptable detail she has...and so nadedisregard nalang pod ang nice things she is possessing of which suppose could help her think how fair God is...and that falls on discontentment and covetousness. huna-huna



    hmm yah naa pd ikw point jan sis..huna-huna
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    Post  candzy_angel on Mon Oct 27, 2008 11:11 am

    Naa jud mga laki na ing-ana na they tend to look at the physical appearance sa babae, I guess they are not a trustworthy na mga lalaki… but naa man pud mga lalaki unusual lng na physical ilang gina tanaw but ang personality sa isa ka babae, naa q mga friends na dli sila ganahan ug mga ingana though dli jud mawala sa ilaha ang physical… kay nature na jud na sa mga lalaki, but instead of getting jealous you should take it a challenge why does man take a look for another woman, dli sa lalaki ang mali but also sa atong mga babae, minsan man gud when we thought na we are in a relationship with a guy, we intend not to fix ourselves just because he should look only sa atoa pero ang mga lalaki man gud dali magsawa lalo n kng dli ka kabalo mag-ayos sa imong self.

    Instead of pitying yourself you should be contented of what you have, kng mao lng jud na ang gihatag sa God sa imoha, but instead of envying other learn to nurture things na naa sa imoha… we have different skills and talent and personality sa uban tao.

    The point here is be contented and be happy of what you are. Dli lng nimo ma malayan naga envy n ang ubang tao sa imoha, it’s because na focused ka sa mga negative side nimo… sagdi lng ng mga lalaki dli lng na sila contented…
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    Post  Babyselosa on Mon Oct 27, 2008 11:31 am

    hahaha agree ko a2ng imong ingon sa last part na
    "sagdi lng ng mga lalaki dli lng na sila contented"... ngisi
    dakong puntos jud na xa skoa..except sa mga TARONG jud na lake!
    usually mn gd, mga boys hawd or kbalo cla modala sa ilang sarili..
    di gani nimo halos mpansin kung insecure sila sa isa ka tao or unsa!
    mura ra gud japon na silag ngdula sa mga girls na msking unsaon nimo ug dakop di jud madakpan or masakpan..ngisi

    hmm OUT OF TOPIC na au ko..lol!
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    Post  jienel on Tue Nov 04, 2008 11:51 am

    Simple lang.
    .


    "ang babae magkadugay magkababa ang market value,
    samantalang kaming mga boys. Huh! ok ra kaau. wahahahaha"


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    Post  Lord_Arjay on Tue Nov 04, 2008 11:59 am

    jienel wrote:
    Simple lang.
    .


    "ang babae magkadugay magkababa ang market value,
    samantalang kaming mga boys. Huh! ok ra kaau. wahahahaha"


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    Waaaaaaaaaa... bang! bang! hahahaha... buanga nimo Jin oi... hahahaha...

    Gihimo man nimo ug losyang ang babae oi... tsk tsk tsk... hahaha... toinks toinks

    Dili man gyud ta ka-ingon kung kinsa sa duha ang mas-insecure kay ang babae ug lalake naa gyud nay insecurities but ang sa akoa lang, dapat dili ka ma-insecure sa imong self, dapat ibandera nimo na. Mao lang man gud na hatag ni God para sa imoha maong dapat gyud dawatun. Magpasalamat pa ta diba... Wa tay mahimo ana. Kung ma-insecure man eh think positive lang, katawa lang gud... heheehehe... just be yourself toinks toinks


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    Post  Babyselosa on Tue Nov 04, 2008 12:20 pm

    @Arjay..

    uu agree ko sa imong mga gipangyaw².. LOL!
    hmm kanang insecurity mn gd is a sense of helplessness
    in the face of problems, conflict, or concerns..
    mao na xa ang resulta from a sense of being unaccepted,
    disapproved, or rejected..

    nganong insecure sila?

    first, it is been raised in a chaotic, unpredictable,
    or volatile environment in which they were kept off balance,
    on guard, or on edge..

    second, it is been given very little direction, guidance,
    or discipline in their earlier lives leaving them unable to cope
    with the current pressures of life..

    ang uban insecure na tawo ky naga2o sa ilang sarili like:

    I am Failure!
    I am ugly and awful to look at!
    I can never WIN!
    I am a LOSER!

    puro negative tan`aw nila sa ilang sarili..
    feel nila incompetent sila in everything..
    they don't deserve to be treated nicely!
    and lastly, they are so afraid that no one will like them!! hilak


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    Post  Lord_Arjay on Tue Nov 04, 2008 12:38 pm

    @Baby

    hastang taasa oi... whew... hehehehe

    Ani lang gud, "Face your insecurities"... Think always positive. Labanan nimo tanan... Kung paminaw nimo eh kaunon ka sa imong insecurities, ngita ug paagi na mapildi nimo nah...

    Kung di makaya, eh hilom na lang... hahahaha... lewls!!! toinks toinks


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    Post  Babyselosa on Tue Nov 04, 2008 12:57 pm

    Lord_Arjay wrote:@Baby

    hastang taasa oi... whew... hehehehe

    Ani lang gud, "Face your insecurities"... Think always positive. Labanan nimo tanan... Kung paminaw nimo eh kaunon ka sa imong insecurities, ngita ug paagi na mapildi nimo nah...

    Kung di makaya, eh hilom na lang... hahahaha... lewls!!! toinks toinks

    hmp! giHUNGAW ra nko na ako gibati jay! ngisi
    based on my xperience dati..
    di jud malikayan bah! ggRrrr!
    lagi oi tama na ka, mali nko!
    -"drama"-..Luoy Sad
    hahah way ANGAY! nyeta!! Kugmo


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    Post  Lord_Arjay on Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:00 pm

    Babyselosa wrote:
    Lord_Arjay wrote:@Baby

    hastang taasa oi... whew... hehehehe

    Ani lang gud, "Face your insecurities"... Think always positive. Labanan nimo tanan... Kung paminaw nimo eh kaunon ka sa imong insecurities, ngita ug paagi na mapildi nimo nah...

    Kung di makaya, eh hilom na lang... hahahaha... lewls!!! toinks toinks

    hmp! giHUNGAW ra nko na ako gibati jay! ngisi
    based on my xperience dati..
    di jud malikayan bah! ggRrrr!
    lagi oi tama na ka, mali nko!
    -"drama"-..Luoy Sad
    hahah way ANGAY! nyeta!! Kugmo

    @Baby

    Aw, mao bah... sensya... ngisi ngisi ayaw na drama dira oi... hahahaha... oki lang man na... grouphug toinks toinks


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    Post  Babyselosa on Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:16 pm

    hekhek!

    ngon gani ko! ngisi
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    Post  candzy_angel on Tue Nov 04, 2008 4:31 pm

    Just don't mind those kind of mga lalaki... tanang tao na insecurity and want to compete with others but in the end sila lng japon masakitan... but instead stay humble... and don't look at others of what they have... wala ka kabalo naa pud sila insecurities... tabla2x lng, basta aqng maingon be contented and stay happy... a true friend doesn't look at the physical appearances sa isa ka tao but sa imong personality... ngisi ngisi
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    Post  YaNa~ on Thu Nov 06, 2008 3:57 pm

    Hmmm I think the 'Boys' are one of the factors why girls are insecure "minsan"... hehe kasi po, come to think of it, most of you, boys, dli stick to one... so, girls feel so insecure and they tend to change or do sumthing to get their 'guy' back, lalo na pag-love nila maxado ung guy... tsk3! manhid effect! pathetic! hehe

    Anyway, Girls! mas ok kung inside and out mganda kau... don't be deceived by what others look like or say about you...

    Each of us has its own uniqueness!;) ciao!
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    Post  candzy_angel on Thu Nov 06, 2008 4:07 pm

    Ngano man gud ning mga laki bah, dli ma satisfy ug 1 kailangan jud daghan mo... naglagot dapat ani sa ilaha gina tuok away ug gina bunalan Bunalan Bitaw
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    Post  YaNa~ on Thu Nov 06, 2008 4:50 pm

    candzy_angel wrote:Ngano man gud ning mga laki bah, dli ma satisfy ug 1 kailangan jud daghan mo... naglagot dapat ani sa ilaha gina tuok away ug gina bunalan Bunalan Bitaw

    Hehehe Korek ka jan gel! tsk... well, it's their nature... bsta us, girls, should be strong enough to face everything... hehe go girls!;) clap
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    Post  Babyselosa on Sat Nov 08, 2008 10:31 am

    candzy_angel wrote:Ngano man gud ning mga laki bah, dli ma satisfy ug 1 kailangan jud daghan mo... naglagot dapat ani sa ilaha gina tuok away ug gina bunalan Bunalan Bitaw


    hahaha relax sis!
    maniwala nlng tau sa karma.. ngisi
    wla mn gd mwala sa ilaha mao ana nlng cla sa mga gurls!
    they dont even think na daku au sala ang ilang mga gpangbuhat..
    anyways, dami jud btaw boys na insecure..
    dats why nagabuhat cla ug mga sins!
    tama ra jud na bunal bunalan cla.. Bunalan Bitaw
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    Post  candzy_angel on Sat Nov 08, 2008 12:44 pm

    I guess men are more insecure than girls lalo na when the girls has high status kaysa sa lalaki... or when the girl earn more than the guys... kaya mga girls don't get insecure magtrabaho kayo ng mabuti, and prove sa mga boys hindi kaau insecure sa sarili nyo.... Libro
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    Post  YaNa~ on Sat Nov 08, 2008 8:11 pm

    candzy_angel wrote:I guess men are more insecure than girls lalo na when the girls has high status kaysa sa lalaki... or when the girl earn more than the guys... kaya mga girls don't get insecure magtrabaho kayo ng mabuti, and prove sa mga boys hindi kaau insecure sa sarili nyo.... Libro
    tanawon nato dli baya mag laway... drools ug maghilak na gibulagan ka... Bunalan Bitaw

    Korek! and according to statistics, mas dghang successful na girls than men... Grabe man gud ta maka-effort girls pro ang laki sus! pa-happy go lucky lng... or pabaya jud! hehe tsk! gusto lng palami pirmi... lol!
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    Post  |{`angelkienne`}| on Mon Dec 01, 2008 11:29 pm

    IF I WERE A BOY.............................................................

    by Beyonce Knowles.

    hahay men talaga..................... Sad
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    Post  Gladisia on Tue Dec 02, 2008 7:33 am

    hmmmm.... para sa akoa, nganong ma-insecure ang mga girls sa mga lalake kay...


    Mas mga gwapa man gud sila kesa sa mga babae... hahahaha! labi na ug todo make-up ang mga lake tas carry kau nila ilang outfit... murag diha jud, ingon na lang ka..."nganong nabayot pa man na siya oie, gwapo ra ba unta!"


    i hate you i hate you i hate you

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    Post  candzy_angel on Tue Dec 02, 2008 8:49 am

    kasi ang boys madali ma tempt sa ibang girls... tapos tayo naman mga girls ma-insecure kaagad... pasagdi lng gud na mga laki, tanawon kng dli bana mugukod... ngisi ngisi

    dapat din mga girls give a little space for your man para xa na mismo makarealize sa iyang sarili kng ikaw ba jud or dli... kng too much pressure sa ilaha dali lng pud na magsawa sa imoha... and also trust the guy...

    always or nature sa mga girls ang emotional kaau... pakita pud na your strong enough to stand on your own... masyado kasing dependent sa mga boys kaya ang uban boys abusado pud kaau... ngisi ngisi
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    Post  Babyselosa on Sun Dec 14, 2008 7:52 pm

    Hahahaha mao jud.. hmp! boys talaga.. ngisi
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    Post  YaNa~ on Sun Dec 14, 2008 8:57 pm

    Nature na sa girls...
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    Post  Babyselosa on Tue Dec 16, 2008 4:11 pm

    Yah geng..

    Its nature! ngisi

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