How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back?

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    Post  Berting on Wed Sep 19, 2007 2:34 pm

    How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back?

    Getting back your ex girlfriend isn't going to be an easy task...anybody who says it is easy has never had to do it. It takes a lot of time and effort, and there'll be times when you wonder if it's even worth all the trouble to get back somebody who hurt you so badly...but if you remember what drew you to her in the first place, and think of the reasons that being with her made you so happy, I'm sure you can find the strength and motivation to see it through.

    Guys and girls are wired a little differently...not so differently as some will have you believe, but it is true that women are more driven by their emotional sides than most men typically are. Chances are good if she ended the relationship with you that her emotional needs just weren't being met. You're going to have to do some changing in yourself and really let that be evident in you if you plan to try to get her back. She's not going to give the two of you another try if she doesn't feel that you'll be any better-equipped to provide her with the emotional support she needs.

    The first thing you're going to need to do is get back into contact. Always remember that if it's been a little while since the breakup, she may be seeing other people. I know that has to hurt, but try not to barge in and ruin a relationship, it'll only make things worse. Use your best judgement when choosing a time to contact her.

    When you do end up face-to-face with her, don't just try to convince her to take you back. Communicate, and don't forget that communication is a two-way street. You have to listen to her. Not only will she feel a bit more appreciated if you're truly attentive and obviously care about what she has to say, but it'll also make it easier for you to pick up on any signals or nonverbal cues she might give off.

    And don't play around with her...make it clear through the use of subtle signals just what you hope for concerning the two of you. Don't "bare your soul" to her...these talks don't always work, and if you put too much down on the line you could end up being hurt pretty badly. But make sure that you avoid leaving yourself too vulnerable while still making it evident that you care about her, and always be attentive.

    Another thing that can help you a lot is to make sure you're staying in shape. If you've previously had a couple pitfalls, now is a great time to work towards getting back into shape. There is very little in the way of motivation as powerful as trying to get back someone you love, and looking better than ever will certainly draw her eye.

    Always remember as well that when you're making all these changes to yourself in the hopes of getting her back, you better be ok with the new person you become. If you just can't handle the compromises you've made, you're only raising the chances of further separation and heartbreak down the line.

    Pagsure oi.... :D :D

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    Post  marj on Wed Sep 19, 2007 3:50 pm

    Pakens!! siaka ui!

    Ana jud diay papabertz! ngano have u tried it yourself? hehehe
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    Post  Nessan™ on Wed Sep 19, 2007 6:33 pm

    Nice brod...

    ana lang diay na! hahaha!! hawda jud nimo brod oi mao diay daghan ka chicks dah!



    you rock brod!


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    Post  kitty_n on Thu Sep 20, 2007 4:15 pm

    The DONT'S in GETTing your EX back...


    Unfortunately, the things people naturally try to do after a break up actually end up pushing their ex further away... even though it seems like the right thing to do at the time!

    Have you tried any of this to get your ex back:
    * Telling them you love them over and over?

    * Apologizing and swearing that things will be different from now on?

    * Using money, kids, jealousy, or some other kind of manipulative leverage to "force" them to come back?

    * Acting depressed so that they will feel bad for you and come back?

    * Giving your ex reassurance that you have changed so they should try again?

    * Trying to reason and argue with them about why they should give the relationship another chance?

    These things that most people try are actually counter-productive. People actually end up pushing their ex boyfriends or girlfriends further away making it less likely they will ever get back together! Please don't make any of the above mistakes.
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    Post  Berting on Fri Sep 21, 2007 9:57 am

    waaaaaaaaaa..... ana lang man jud na... :P :P

    hehehehe... :lol: :lol: :lol:

    be yourself and don't hesitate to do what u think is right....
    dili bitaw ta mapriso kung e try... lol! lol! lol!

    murag true.... :P :P

    ako... ako... ako ang bahala dito.. lol! lol!

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    Post  Jell`z on Sat Sep 22, 2007 10:47 pm

    COOL TOPIC HUH...HMM..DEPENDS LNG SZA SITWASZYON F DA GURL OR THE BOY WANT TO COME BACK..:)) EHEKZ..EUN LNG KNG ENDE NAH D NA TLGA :) :bounce: :cheers:
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    Post  MiNARi on Mon Sep 24, 2007 4:58 pm

    mao ni topic..informative maski copy paste lang...

    pero if ako ang girl...then gibulagan nako ako bf....then mubalik sya sa akoa...its a big no no..

    once nagkamali..bye...

    this aint a game...

    try to be sensitive and mature...

    once i love you, ill give u everything...but be mature, sensitive and honest partner to me and i guess we will live happily ever after...
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    Post  sUzEttE on Tue Sep 25, 2007 10:03 pm

    1st and foremost, you have to check the situation if it's your time to move or not, just to make sure that your efforts will not be put in vain..huhuhu..i mean it's a case to case bases..it won't gonna be like magnets that it will compel if one of the side is in negative while the other one is positive. from that case, you can figure out that it's not possible to have her back...all you can have to do is to open your eyes widely and prepare your heart for the aches..be a man not a madman..take the facts with a :) . everything has a reason within.

    Finally, i bet you have human instinct kung "tao" ka nga...naturally you can sense if your ex-girl still loves you..and if it is..then pagcelebrate oi! cuz for sure you can win her back..it takes time nga lang cuz again girls are naturally "PAKIPOT"...hehehe...just try all best man OG pakapini pod og gamay na prayer ;) para sure oi! wahahaha


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    Post  Mr_PostMan™ on Thu Sep 27, 2007 3:49 pm

    How to get your ex-gf back?? Easy lng yan mga choy...

    Step 1..

    If mahal ka pa ng girl... Paselosin mo..

    Step 2..

    Pag nagselos, lalapitan ka nyan at hihingi yan ng sorry sau.(IF LOVE KA TALAGA NG GIRL)

    Step 3..

    Tanawa.. Mobalik lng mo og sau lol!
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    Post  kitty_n on Thu Sep 27, 2007 8:13 pm

    for us nmn gurlz, xmpre we'll wait for da guyz 2 move..
    alangn nmn daw kmi mgbuhat ug first move..
    nothin's wrong nmn if ang gurl ang mauna pro d lng dpat ipakita sa guy na desperate ka na ma win back xa..
    kung willing jud xa mgkabalikan mu,
    he'll find ways 2 get back wit u. if not,
    maybe ala nxa plan so dont waste na ur time
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    Post  ruzzychai330 on Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:42 am

    They're right, it's a case to case bases. First thing I may need to figure out is "the reason why you two broke-up", for you to know if she's worth the effort. (dili daw saun magpaka martyr infront of a lot of people, noh?). You don't have to change to win her back because you will never be yourself again and you will walk on shells afraid that you will lose her again if you do this and that. And the bottom line is still the same. Anyway, you will never know if you we're meant for each other, the only way to find out is to let him/her go. Right?

    If things really won't work? Just get over it. Now, this is one of those easy-to-say-but-hard-to-do stuff, but that's the reality. Get over it! Life doesn't end there and believe me, it's just a matter of time. It's just up to know if you want to drown youself with the memories of her/him that would only make you feel sad about the whole thing.

    :!: Ooopz, what am i saying here? :!:
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    Post  `POLLY on Sun Jun 08, 2008 6:24 pm

    nah. if it was me.
    not to sound arrogant or anything but I don't take my ex's back.
    i don't know. bsta..
    kc pag nahurt ako sori nlang sknya kc
    honestly, i do hold grudges. haha!
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    Post  Dutty_r0cK on Sun Jun 08, 2008 9:12 pm

    e txt txt nimu din mag meet mo.. watch sine.. talk talk din QL dayun... LOL
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    Post  joyce on Sun Jun 08, 2008 10:46 pm

    sipata nimo maize oi!!! hahaha kng sabagay.. lami ng kuan maize bah kng gkan ug away!!! hahaha [gilahi nah namo ang topic nmo sir oh, maize nag una.una hhahahhahahahha]

    NGANO MGBREAK BREAK MAN GUD BAH TAZ MGHILAK HILAK!! [luslus lagi! lol]

    den mgask unsaon pra magbalik...

    ang maau anih, d nah lng tah mglisod lisod huna2 and buhat ug way pra mgbalik... d bah accdg s song... LOVE WILL LEAD U BACK [d problem is, sa song lang man toh.. buot2 nih nga song! lol]


    LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK lng jud, dli kita ang makapagpabalik s iya... ~,~ :flower:
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    Post  Babyselosa on Mon Jun 09, 2008 11:33 am

    MiNARi wrote:mao ni topic..informative maski copy paste lang...

    pero if ako ang girl...then gibulagan nako ako bf....then mubalik sya sa akoa...its a big no no..

    once nagkamali..bye...

    this aint a game...

    try to be sensitive and mature...

    once i love you, ill give u everything...but be mature, sensitive and honest partner to me and i guess we will live happily ever after...


    Awts! depende mn gud na xa sa ctwaXon..
    xempre kung LOVE jud nimo ang imo bf/gf though nakasaLa xa,
    tapos mgsori xa sa imoha, dapat
    u are always accept him/her kung unsa pa kadaKo iyang saLa!
    depende pud sa girl/boy kung he/she accept sorry.. hilak
    bsta ako!! kung LOVE jud nko ang guy, tapos mgsori,
    mgconfess xa skoa, Y NOT!! kesa nman tagu`on nimo imong feelings
    taz makipag`flirt ka sa lain..mas masakitan mn jud ka ana dba?
    lalu na pag kad2 lng jud xa na guy/girl imong LOVE!!mao lng 2.. ngisi
    (based on my experience!!)
    lol! lol! lol!
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    Post  `POLLY on Tue Jun 10, 2008 10:05 am

    nanao balikan p man nang mga ex's oi...
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    Post  Dutty_r0cK on Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:41 pm

    K|TT|E wrote:nanao balikan p man nang mga ex's oi...

    syempre gus2 pa nila maka score.... LOL!!
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    Post  bLiNDmUstBe on Thu Jun 12, 2008 1:09 pm

    mao.. kay wala pa cla ka DUNK! ngisi
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    Post  Babyselosa on Thu Jun 12, 2008 1:43 pm

    C maing nawong au ug SCORE
    pero di ka`sCore kay ______!!!
    fagSyur ing woinks!!
    lol!
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    Post  bLiNDmUstBe on Thu Jun 12, 2008 2:49 pm

    yay! gi tira.. bagang! Hilak-2
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    Post  Babyselosa on Thu Jun 12, 2008 2:52 pm

    Ana mn jud nah.. ngisi

    PEACE ing..PEACE!!! lol!
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    Post  bLiNDmUstBe on Thu Jun 12, 2008 4:21 pm

    ok serious na.. how to get ur ex back? well.. wala jud koy mahatag nga advice kay kung mki pagbalik ko sa ila dli n mn cla.. Sad
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    Post  Babyselosa on Thu Jun 12, 2008 4:59 pm

    ehem..ana diay nah?
    hahaiz..ako kung LOVE jud nko ang guy,
    taz cryuso au xa, why NOT!?
    Kana lng.. Kugmo

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